Ever feel like you’re just floating through life, unsure of what you’re actually good at?
I’ve been there too.
Between career expectations, social media comparisons, and the endless pressure to “find your passion,” it’s easy to lose sight of the things that make you, you.
But here’s the good news: you do have natural talents.
You’re probably already using them without realizing it.
And today, I want to help you figure out what they are.
This guide is for anyone who’s ever wondered, “What am I naturally good at?” If you’ve been looking for answers on how to figure out your natural talents, you’re in the right place.
1. Take a Personality Test: Understand Your Inner Wiring
First up – let’s bust the myth that everyone should fit into the same mold.
We all have different personalities, and tools like the Meyers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) can help shed light on your natural strengths.
When I first took the MBTI, it was like reading my own user manual. Suddenly, my preferences, work habits, and even the way I handle stress made sense.
I also recommend checking out the Enneagram Test and the Authentic Happiness Questionnaire Center if you’re curious.
Self-awareness isn’t just fluffy self-help talk – it’s powerful.
It can give you clarity in job interviews, social settings, and daily decision-making.
2. Notice When You Feel Strong and Capable
You know those moments when you just feel in your element?
Maybe it’s when you’re solving a tricky problem, organizing a chaotic event, or calming down a friend.
Those moments aren’t random.
They’re signs from your “inner talent scout.”
Start keeping mental notes (or better yet, journal about them).
These clues will help you figure out your natural talents by showing you where you shine the most.
3. Follow the Money Trail
This might sound weird at first, but hear me out: what you spend money on can say a lot about your hidden interests.
Apps like Money Lover or Money Manager can help you break down your spending.
Do you spend a lot on books? You might have a love for learning or writing.
Constantly buying fitness gear? Maybe you have a natural athletic streak.
Your wallet might be revealing your inner talents more than you think.
4. Revisit Your Childhood Loves
I always get a little nostalgic when I think back to my childhood – the things I did for hours without being told.
One of those things was writing a fictional werewolf story on Wattpad everyday after school at my aunt’s place. I even wrote for my local newspaper! Looking back, it now makes sense why I can naturally write my thoughts without struggle.
If you can’t remember, ask your family what you used to love doing as a kid.
There’s often a connection between what we loved back then and what we’re naturally talented at now.
5. Journal It Out
Sometimes our brains are too loud to hear our own thoughts clearly. That’s why journaling is such a great tool.
Just start writing, no filters.
What makes you feel fulfilled?
What frustrates you?
What do you keep coming back to?
Over time, you’ll see patterns. You’ll find breadcrumbs that can lead you to your natural talents.
6. Listen to the “It’d Be Cool If…” Voice
Ever think to yourself, “It’d be cool to start a podcast,” or “It’d be cool to learn how to code”?
That voice isn’t random.
It’s hinting at something you might secretly want to explore.
Let it guide you.
7. Ask Your Friends (The Brutal Truth)
Sometimes we’re too close to our own strengths to see them. That’s where your close friends come in.
Ask them: “What do you think I’m really good at?” and “What’s something you always rely on me for?”
The honest ones will give you insight that you never noticed before – both the good and the not-so-flattering. And that’s helpful too.
I asked my friends, “What do you usually come to me for?” Most of them said accountability, navigating mid-life crises, and money talks. Their answers sparked the idea for this blog.
8. Watch What Inspires (or Triggers) You
When I feel a pang of envy toward someone’s skills, I pause and ask myself: “Is this something I wish I could do too?”
Jealousy can be a mirror, showing you a talent you admire because it might be buried within you too.
So instead of scrolling past, dig into that feeling.
9. Pay Attention to What You’re Thanked For
People often thank us for the things we’re naturally good at.
Maybe you’re a calming presence.
A reliable problem solver.
A creative thinker.
Take note—if others consistently appreciate something about you, there’s a good chance it’s one of your natural talents.
At one point in my career, my manager described me as “the rock” because I stayed calm and composed during moments of crisis. That feedback helped me recognize my ability to handle pressure and stay grounded, especially when things get tough.
10. Check Your Collections
Whether it’s your Spotify playlists, Netflix queue, or bookshelf, your media choices reveal a lot about who you are.
What themes keep popping up?
Adventure?
Teaching?
Psychology?
For me, it was personal finance and business-building content—consistently showing up on my YouTube, Instagram, and Spotify homepages.
These are more than just interests. They’re clues. Follow them.
11. What Do You Talk About Non-Stop?
Seriously – think about the topics that light you up in conversation. The things you could ramble about for hours.
These passions usually overlap with your talents.
That energy is worth paying attention to.
12. Take the Bookstore Test
If I dropped you in a bookstore and told you to pick any non-fiction section to spend an hour in – where would you go?
Your answer?
That’s your curiosity pointing you toward something real. Something you might want to explore further.
13. Listen to Strangers’ Compliments
Compliments from strangers feel different – they’re unbiased and fresh. “You explain things so clearly!” or “You have such a calm vibe.”
These comments, though brief, can reveal a lot.
Take them seriously.
14. Be Open to New Experiences
Talents aren’t always fixed.
You can develop new ones over time.
Stay open.
Try new things, say yes more often, and let yourself grow into something unexpected.
15. Experiment – Trial and Error Is Key
You don’t need a master plan.
Try stuff. Join a class.
Start a side project.
Help a friend with something new.
Trying is how you figure out your natural talents – not by sitting and waiting for inspiration.
16. Enjoyment First, Talent Later
Don’t worry if you’re not good at something right away.
If it excites you, keep going.
Enjoyment can lead to skill.
Passion fuels growth.
17. Cultivate It – Talent Is Built
Natural talent is just the starting line.
What truly sets people apart?
Consistent effort and intentional practice.
It’s not just about discovering your strengths—it’s about developing them.
Once I realized writing was one of mine, I made the decision to invest in it. That meant dedicating time, energy, and even money into honing the skill—like hiring a blogging coach who now supports me through every step of my writing journey.
18. Match Talents to Real-Life Opportunities
Once you’ve identified some natural talents, ask: How can I use this in my life?
Whether it’s in your career, side hustle, or personal hobbies – your strengths can guide your direction.
19. Reflect on Past Experience
Look back on jobs or projects you’ve done.
What parts did you love?
What did others praise you for?
Those moments probably involved your natural talents.
20. Build Your Own Path
If traditional paths don’t excite you, that’s okay.
We live in a time where your unique blend of talents can be turned into something real – a blog, a business, a platform.
Maybe the world needs exactly what you have to offer.
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Conclusion: Your Unique Blend
Figuring out your natural talents isn’t about finding one big calling. It’s about tuning in, listening to yourself (and others), and staying curious.
It’s okay if you haven’t had a lightning bolt moment yet – these things unfold slowly. Be patient with yourself.
So if you’re still wondering how to figure out your natural talents, remember: the clues are already around you.
Start small, stay open, and trust that with time and intention, you’ll unearth your hidden gems.
