I thought reading ten personal finance books would make me confident enough to start investing.
Instead, I froze.
It started with curiosity.
Then it became a mission.
I devoured books like The Psychology of Money, Just Keep Buying, Your Money or Your Life, I Will Teach You to Be Rich, and a few more that came highly recommended on Instagram and YouTube.
Each book had solid advice. Each promised a roadmap to financial freedom.
But after a while, the advice started to blur together — and worse, contradict one another.
Should I pay off debt first or invest early? Buy a house or rent forever? Follow a zero-based budget or automate everything?
I felt like I had 20 maps, but I still didn’t know which road to take. That’s when I realized I wasn’t progressing.
I was stuck in what they call analysis paralysis.
What Is Analysis Paralysis?
Analysis paralysis happens when you’re faced with too many options or too much information, and instead of making a decision, you end up doing… nothing.
In personal finance, this is surprisingly common.
There are endless opinions out there — books, podcasts, blogs, influencers — and many of them conflict.
When you’re bombarded with information, your brain can short-circuit. You second-guess every move. You don’t want to do the wrong thing, so you end up doing… no thing.
That’s exactly what happened to me.
How Reading Too Much Made Me Freeze
I thought I was educating myself. But what I was really doing was overloading my brain.
I tried too many things at once:
- I switched between budgeting styles monthly.
- I downloaded five different finance apps, used none consistently.
- I made elaborate spreadsheets but never followed through with them.
- I kept delaying investing because I wasn’t sure if I should use robo-advisors, DIY a brokerage account, or buy ETFs vs. individual stocks.
Even the simplest decisions — like choosing a savings account — became overly complicated.
Should I go for the one with the highest interest? The one with a prize draw? The one with no fees?
I spent days researching. Weeks passed.
I took no action.
I was so afraid of making a “wrong” move that I made no move at all.
Why It Happens
Looking back, I see exactly why I got stuck:
- Cognitive Overload: Too much information leads to mental fatigue.
- Perfectionism: I wanted the perfect plan before taking action.
- Fear of Failure: I didn’t want to mess up and regret it.
- Comparison Trap: Seeing success stories online made me feel like my small steps wouldn’t be enough.
I convinced myself I needed to master everything before starting. That mindset cost me time, money, and peace of mind.
The Cost of Inaction
In the time I spent reading and thinking:
- I delayed investing for over a year — missing out on market growth.
- I lost motivation to budget because I kept tweaking the system.
- I felt behind, even though I was technically “learning.”
- Worst of all, I began to avoid the topic entirely — because it stressed me out.
That’s when I knew: reading more wasn’t the answer.
Doing more was.
How I Broke the Cycle
Here’s what helped me get unstuck:
1. I Picked One Voice to Follow for 3 Months
I chose one book and one budget style and blocked out the rest.
I decided to start saving, tracking my finances and investing early after understanding the fundamentals from The Psychology of Money.
No more switching between Dave Ramsey vs. FIRE vs. Ramit Sethi.
Just one voice, one method.
2. I Focused on Action Over Perfection
I didn’t wait to feel 100% ready or find the “perfect” strategy—I just started.
I opened a robo-advisor account with Stashaway, even if I wasn’t totally confident it was the best choice.
I put a small amount into a 30% risk fund to get the ball rolling.
I tracked my expenses without worrying about aesthetics, and I kept myself accountable by anonymously sharing the journey on Instagram.
It wasn’t perfect, but it was forward.
3. I Used the 80/20 Rule
I realized 80% of results come from 20% of actions:
- Spend less than you earn
- Save and invest consistently
- Avoid high-interest debt
Once I focused on these basics, everything else became less overwhelming.
4. I Set Boundaries on Information
I unsubscribed from most newsletters and stopped following too many finance influencers.
I limited myself to one blog and one podcast.
Less noise = more clarity.
5. I Gave Myself Permission to Pivot
I reminded myself: personal finance is personal.
You can adjust.
Your first budget or investment isn’t your last.
You learn best by doing, not just reading.
Sunk Cost Fallacy: What If My Priorities Change?
The sunk cost fallacy happens when we keep investing time, money, or energy into something just because we’ve already put so much into it—even if it no longer feels right.
It tricks us into thinking that quitting equals failure, when sometimes it’s just growth.
This happened to me about two years ago. I had five individual stocks—mostly bank stocks and REITs—that I held for over two years.
But eventually, I realized I didn’t enjoy it at all.
I hated keeping up with company news, market trends, and earnings reports. Deep down, I knew I’d rather just invest in the S&P 500 and be done with it.
Still, I hesitated—paralyzed by the fear of missing out on future gains.
In hindsight, it was a classic case of analysis paralysis.
I kept thinking, “I’ve already held these for so long… might as well wait a bit more.” That’s the sunk cost fallacy in action.
It took me 6 months of going back and forth before I finally sold everything (with very minimal profit) and moved the money into index funds.
And honestly?
No regrets. It turned out to be one of the best investing decisions I’ve made.
So if your priorities change—it’s okay.
You don’t have to get everything right from the start. What matters most is taking action, learning from the experience, and adjusting as you go.
Investing (and life) is a journey, not a one-time perfect decision.
What I Do Differently Now
These days, my approach is much simpler:
- I have 3 main savings accounts and 3 main investment platforms. (to be honest, I have more accounts because I am testing them as reviews. However, I always stick to my main platforms)
- I revisit one or two books a year — not ten.
- I prioritize doing over perfect planning.
And most importantly, I trust that I can learn as I go. I don’t place too much pressure on myself.
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Final Thoughts: You Don’t Need More Books — You Need a Starting Point
Don’t get me wrong.
Personal finance books are great.
They opened my eyes to a world I never learned in school.
But they can also overwhelm you if you consume too many without applying what you’ve learned.
If you’re feeling stuck right now, try this:
Choose one small thing to act on today.
Open that account. Track your spending. Cancel that unused subscription. Just start.
Because the truth is — you don’t need to know everything to change something.
And small steps, done consistently, will always beat perfect plans that live only in your head.